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Personal Essay

In The Midst of My First True T4T Love, I Forgot to Prioritize Myself

I thought our shared identities could sustain us both. What I learned became much more important.

By Ella Snyder
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In love with love?

Cosmo Editor-in-Chief Willa Bennett unpacks dating trends in her new love newsletter.

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Exclusive Excerpt: SenLinYu’s ‘Alchemised’ Is Full of Magic and Monsters

The author gained a following (and nearly 16 million downloads) with their epic fan fiction, Manacled. Their debut novel takes the story further, into a dark, gothic world full of angst and obsessions.

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Everyone on TikTok Is Reclaiming What They “Unfortunately Love”

From drunk texting to emptying savings accounts, this is how people are embracing their guilty pleasures.

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